Do one or more apply to you?
- You suppress you anger because anger is bad
- You rarely express joy, because you are supposed to be tough
- The conversations with friends are shallow and do not go beyond work, wealth and women.
- You find it difficult to forgive.
- You are going through heartbreak/ betrayal/ divorce and can't even talk about it?
With Emotional Mastery, You Will
The Man Redux Method
He who has a WHY to live can bear almost any HOW.” - Friedrich Nietzsche
Your Why
Excavation and Discovery is the first step. We work to find what makes you - 'you'
One Team
You and I become one team. Together we achieve a whole lot more than individually.
Your Pathway
Based on the discovery, we chart a pathway that is uniquely yours.
One Goal
We work towards one goal together. The goal is based on your discovery and where you want to see yourself.
You, perhaps, have been working on yourself..
Self-help books, motivation speeches, online-courses, YouTube videos, Internet searches, support groups... memes(??)
You want to know why they do not work??
By the nature of those resources, they are generic. They cannot be suited to a bazillion personalities out there. Moreover, these resources can contain a tiny fraction of the author's expertise.
When you want an assured outcome, you call in the expert.
You want someone with experience and competence. A Specialist. Umesh C Vaish is an Indian Air Force veteran with personal experiences of overcoming deep personal setbacks, formal certifications in coaching and decades of experience in military leadership. He is the first ever men's coach in India, focussing exclusively on men's issues.
I spent years trying to 'figure' things out.
I made it through the worst times of my life through perseverance and resilience. Emotional support for men was, and still is, something unheard of. Most men in India and all over the world, are groomed to keep emotions unto themselves. 'Men are tough'. They sure are. But.. even toughest things have a breaking point.
I know the helplessness first hand. I know how it feels when you are all alone in 7 billion people.
I know.
I know how hard it is to seek help. I know how easy the option of ending one's life seems.
I have made it on the other side, it took years of research, training, soul searching and coaching.
I also know, there is such a lack of safe and trustworthy aveneus fro men to be vulnerable.
That is why I am out there to help fellow men master their emotions and go create their own destiny.
You do not need to suffer.
I can help you move a whole lot faster towards your brighter future.
The FLARe for Your Emotional Mastery
FLARe is My unique system of training you to emotional mastery. Access your sleeping superpowers in your emotions.
Feel
Tuning into your body. Learning to listen to sensations.
Label
Discern between subtle meanings and how they manifest in your body.
Assess
Learning to read the messages contained in your emotions. Assess the triggers and logical actions to take.
Refine
Solidify the Wisdom of sensations and emotions.
Refine your emotional expression
FLARe framework is a tried and tested method based in scientific researches and real life experiences. The system trains you step by step into achieving emotional mastery.
Tailor Made Solutions That Work For You
You Are Unique!
You are unique, as cliched that may sound, it is true. Even identical twins, born and brought up in the same environment do not have exactly same personalities. Your solutions need to be specific to you.
Easy to Implement
Solutions that require minimum change or friction have the highest probability of turning your life around positively. We work from where you are in life and your environment. We make it as easy as possible for you to grow.
Readjustments
The solutions are tweaked, bent or altogether changed as we progress and gain more insights into the new you. Nothing is set in stone, except the intent to make a brighter future.
Trusted Friend
As an Air Force veteran, I carry the unshakeable ethos of the military. At ManRedux, my mission is to help you with solutions that work specifically for you in complete confidentiality.
Meet Your Coach
There was a time when ending my life was the only and a very lucrative option. I saw a serious lack of safe avenues for men to share and support each other. My grit, resilience and methods were all put to test in this time. It did take a long time before I emerged victorious. Since my recovery, I have come across countless people suffering silently. Men and women of all ages and demographics seem to have same dilemma of handling emotions. It barely takes 15 minutes into a sincere talk with people. In those short moments a realisation dawns of all the burden they have been carrying for all their life. They learn to shrug it off their shoulder and feel a new life surge.
In over four decades on this planet, I have discovered and experienced every emotion and the 'why' of that emotion. I have been in a military uniform for over three decades. I know how the bottled up emotions played havoc within myself. I have seen people dealing with there own demons and angels all by themselves. I am witness to far too many boys and men made fun of for letting their guard down for just a tiny moment and becoming object of ridicule for the rest of their lives. It has always been tough being a man, and it will always be. I know from experience that it is in the ability to go beyond the superficial behaviours, deeper into the psyche that drives people and motivates them to reach for the sky.
Umesh C Vaish(R)
Wing Commander
Men's Coach, Hypnotherapist
Founder ManRedux.com
Former Air Force Commander and Flying Instructor
Why Emotional Mastery??
Simply said, every single action of yours is result of an emotion. Yes. You picking up a can of soda or water, deciding which car to buy or business deals.. it is the complex web of hormones and neurons at play. There are things being noted consciously and a ton of inputs that are being recorded subconsciously. Ever heard of 'Gut Feeling'? Intuition? What in the world are those?
Those are your emotions, subtly telling you about your environment. Making you feel something often beyond conscious control. The system works for most part. But we all know so many times when our emotions got better of us and we regretted speaking too much or too less, acting too fast or too slow.... What dictated those actions?
What if you knew how to read those inputs coming from your subconscious through emotions? Wouldn't it be a superpower? Like a Sixth Sense?
With me, you will learn to master the art of listening to your emotions, dialling down on the root cause and the message the emotions are trying to tell you. Making you more in control of yourself. Imagine where all could you use this master -
- Improving your relationships
- Cracking important business deals
- Mastering the art of presentations and public speaking
- Getting better interactions with colleagues
- Becoming a better leader by tapping into others' emotions
- the list goes on and on..
Contrary to popular belief, Emotional Mastery is about tapping into the emotions rather than suppressing them. The great Socrates said 'Know Thyself'.. He was perfectly on point. Your Self is the best tool you have, understand it well and you will command the world.
I help you do that!
THE FINE PRINT
Clarifications
or disclaimers, take your pick.
1- I stand behind my guarantee to make you the master of emotions. However, results vary between people. Notwithstanding, you can claim Money Back Guarantee between Day 47 and 57 of my program, if you feel results aren't showing for you. Also, if I see you are not following my instructions, I shall refund your fee and fire you as my client.
Both of us are free to ask questions with no obligations to answers or commitments.
Simple as that.
2- I am an Internationally Accredited and Certified Hypnotherapist and Life Coach. Read more about the differences between the Life Coach and Psychotherapist here and here. Nothing in on this website or my services are meant to replace services of a psychologist/ psychotherapist/ psychiatrist or any other mental health professional. If you are facing clinical mental health issues like depression, BPD, schizophrenia etc, I am not your coach/therapist for those conditions. In these cases, please see a qualified mental health professional.